Sex in christ bdsm

Would you call that suffering? The lack of consent. It seems like BDSM is just like a blanket term that covers so many different things. But I don't think you have much to worry about it being altered in a problematic or less fulfilling way. Anyway, there seems to be quite an emphasis on submission in a Christian context. Ah, but force-feeding someone spicy food after they said "no" may well constitute torture or, more simply, abuse ; it's all a matter of consent that keeps such things from being so to begin with.

This is a tricky question but a very important one that needs to be addressed. Because the husband is obligated to care for his wife as Christ cared for the church, he must always have her best interest in mind and treat her with the utmost love and respect. He disciplines her as God disciplines all of us believers, and as we read in Hebrews, this may smart at the time, but is always for our own good:. Just as a woman gives the gift of submission to her husband, there is no reason why, for their mutual sexual gratification, a man should not submit his body to his wife for her use and serve her sexually. In Christianity, submission is holy. Bondage and discipline are part of the spiritual tradition of Christianity, and are reflected in how a loving, all-knowing God guides his followers and instructs them in His will. This is totally in alignment with the Biblical command that husband and wife give each other "due benevolence"; her body is meant for his sexual enjoyment and vice versa.

There is a huge difference between punishment inflicted out of anger and cruelty by one person overpowering another, and discipline that is meted out with love and reason, gratefully and willingly received. Just as a woman gives the gift of submission to her husband, there is no reason why, for their mutual sexual gratification, a man should not submit his body to his wife for her use and serve her sexually. Just as we trust the Lord, the submissive partner offers total trust to the Dominant partner, knowing that the end result will be redemption and satisfaction: Of course, we are not endorsing any sort of abuse or nonconsensual violence. However, as we will see, that does not exclude well-reasoned and loving discipline.