Rules for a threesome

Some recommended topics to cover: And funnily enough — I would not believe this if someone would have told this to me years ago — some women stay with me and have relationship KNOWING that I am also friend and sexual partner of all those other women. This is especially true for straight couples: And don't feel bad ditching a couple if you sense they're not ready for a three-way — you're doing them and their relationship a favor. Until I tried it, I thought being the single person — the guest star of the evening! Get the latest from Vivala.

In fact, it might not be a bad move for all of you to schedule a screening, just so that everyone involved feels good about moving forward. For example, have you asked her how her girl's night out was, and her response was to tell you about how every guy at the bar hit on her friend? Be genuine, and make sure that your partner knows how important she is to you. Even the most chill woman will likely feel some type of way about you suggesting your supposed "platonic" lady friend to join in on your festivities. The Truth About Lesbian Sex 4 3. So you're a couple looking to spice things up, and the fantasy of having a threeway is on the menu.

Plus, you'll probably want to vet this person before inviting them into your home. In the past, I made this mistake a couple of times myself even though I thought I was very conscious of my girl. In the Good in Bed Guide to 52 Weeks of Amazing Sex , authors discuss how to gauge whether or not this scenario is actually something that your partner is OK with. Especially if you're in said relationship "rut," bringing a third person into the bedroom can mean that your partner ends up choosing that guest star over you. Your email address will not be published.